So after my all night disappearance, I am pretty sure that my (soon to be ex) Husband was not pleased to find me with The Arab. Actually, I know he was pissed because he came right out and said so.
After a silent cab ride home.
Tag Archive: jealousy
I can do anything better than you. 
I let my (soon to be ex) Husband get to me the first time we were together. A lot. Especially at the beginning of our relationship and marriage. I let him walk all over me. Belittle me. Try to change me.
Needless to say, we had a lot of problems.
I called her a lot of things when I was texting him the other day trying to get answers. I called her cunt, whore, bitch and slut. But I wasn’t blaming her and I don’t actually think she is any of those things. She didn’t know about me either. (According to him.)
And even if she did, it’s not her responsibility to maintain the relationship between Dreads and myself. It’s mine and Dreads responsibility. We are the ones that are supposed to care about what is going on between us.
So why did I call her a bunch of bad names in my texts?
I know, ask him, right. Because right now I trust him soooooo much.
Can he still be “friends” with his ex-girlfriend after they crossed the line?
He apparently thinks/thought so. Until I set him straight.
If you’re new to the situation, let me quickly get you up to speed-my boyfriend cheated on me. See here and there. I need to get all the crap I’m thinking out of my head.
If what he said was true-the it was only once (or even if it were a couple times) and that he feels incredibly bad and that he will never do it again-should he have told me what he did? Or should he have kept it to himself?
Dreads has always been a quiet person. But lately (the past few weeks) he was more like silent. He wasn’t joking around as much as usual. The sarcastic banter than we normally engage in seemed to disappear.
I kept asking him what was wrong.
He kept saying “nothing.”
I feel like doing something crazily vindictive. Not really for any reason in particular.
Only because The Arab still breathes.
If I am happy with Dreads then why do I care that he still exists?
Not in a bad, creepy way. Exactly. More in a if-he-writes-anything-on-some-other-girls-page-that-I-don’t-like-I’m-gonna-kill-him kind of way. Which Facebook makes it really easy to keep track of considering it tells me every time he writes something on someone’s page. Unless he’s smart enough to delete it.
Guys usually aren’t very smart.
As I said in my previous post, I’m not sure. Exactly. If I really had to guess for some reason, I could. Probably with some degree of accuracy. Maybe.
But why do people want to know this about the person that they are sexing anyway? Does it really matter? Does it tell you anything? 
Do you want to know so that you can categorize me? Define me, put me in a neat little box somewhere?
I don’t know how many times I have heard (some variation of) this question. Whether it’s from guys I’ve dated, friends (male and female) or family (like I’m really going to tell them anything) I have heard this question about a million times.
I’m not stupid, I know better than to answer this question when asked by family or anyone with a penis.
So what’s the answer?
